Thursday, July 31, 2008
Restaurant Review
I had the most fantastic lunch yesterday, it was simply delectable. A few coworkers and I took advantage of Manhattan’s Restaurant week, and it was a day to remember. We dined @ Asia de Cuba, here’s the link for your viewing pleasure Check it Out.
As the name suggests, the food was a mixture of Asia and Cuban cuisines. For those of you that aren’t familiar with the perks of restaurant week, I’ll give you a brief explanation. Restaurant week is a time when a myriad of restaurants cut the price of a selection of their dishes. Three course Prix-Fixe Dinning where lunch is $24.07 and Dinner is $35.00.
At Asia de Cuba, the ambiance was relaxing and the crowd was trendy. The food was delicious and my coworkers and I enjoyed it immensely. Here’s what we had, we started with the calamari salad, and lemongrass skewered chicken. We then moved on to the Charred Beef Ribs which I have to say was simply exquisite; I could have died and gone to heaven right then We also had the BBQ Cuban chicken with coconut sticky Rice and Guacamole; the sticky rice was flavorful and easy on the taste buds. Lastly, we had the coconut cake which was to die for, along with the sorbet of three different exotic flavors. Just imagine, all of this for $24.07… Now! That’s my kind of deal.
Below is a link which displays all of the restaurants that partake in Manhattan's Restaurant Week. Unfortunately, this all comes to an end tomorrow but you are still able to peruse the listing of restaurants and if you find something you like you can take advantage of this deal tomorrow.
Restaurant Week
If perhaps you’ve dined at a noteworthy restaurant lately, feel free to drop us a line or two… or even if you’ve had a bad experience… Kindly let us know the 411.
I hope that all of your dining experiences are as good as mine.
Enjoy
Go Native?
These Christian Louboutin For Ever Tina Suede Platform Boots
have alot going on, but I've gotta be honest, I'm feelin' them for the Fall/Winter season. On second thought, who am I kidding? I can already see myself busting my ass on a nice ice patch, and going down in a flurry of suede fringe. These, I'll just pine away for inside my heart. But, if I was one of those little dog carrying chicks how cute would This combo be?
Plastic Bags Are Passe.
Go green with reusable shopping bags from envirosax
You need to get with this. Plastic bags litter parks, pollute water ways, and pile up in landfills where they will take 1000 years to break down. They are also made from valuable, non-renewable resources, such as natural gas and oil. (HELLO!)
Several countries including Bangladesh and China have already banned plastic bags. Canada, is currently working towards a ban as well.
I've seen some stores giving away free re-usable bags, or you can do your part for the earth in style. Envirosax, is one of many companies offering a variety of colors and prints on their re-useable shopping bags. Plus, they roll up nicely, and fit into your handbag, so you can be ready to whip it out whenever an occasion arises that USED to call for plastic.
Wanna be a Baby Phat Model?
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Rock that Runway ladies!
Mane-Tain!
Damn what Ashanti says, THIS is that good good!
As you can see from the above picture, I'm not the only one who thinks so. Check the best of Sephora caption. This cream is great for styling, adding non-greasy shine, and smoothing flyaways. There is no styling cream that works better for me.
Glossing Cream
What it is:
A leave-in cream for shiny, manageable hair.
What it does:
Frederic Fekkai Glossing Cream provides light control and imparts lasting shine. It also protects your locks from styling tool damage, and shields hair from the environment with UVA and UVB sunscreens. The cream absorbs quickly and without greasiness.
The Ultimate Vibrator!
Style File
Slowly but surely, I am becoming a bit enamored with Alice and Olivia. Some of their pieces are soft and feminine and hugs your body in just the right places. Their prices can become a bit unbearable @ times, but anything worth having usually comes with a huge price tag. Nevertheless, I still find a way to purchase some of their pieces while kicking and screaming of course :) One of my favorite bargain sites is Shopbop
It is one of the best online sites where you can purchase designer clothing @ relatively comparable and affordable prices. Below you will find several items that are very cute for the summer. They are currently on sale and going for less than $100. Peruse the sale selection and see what else catches your eye or check out the “What’s New” section to see what new items they have available.
The blue dress is Alice and Olivia, the green shorts is DVF, the short set is KRITIK and the striped dress is Rachel Pally.
Blue Dress
Green Shorts
Short Set
Striped Dress
Good Luck with your search.
Could you lay in bed for 3 months STRAIGHT for $10/hour?
But what if you were really, really, broke? Maybe? Read on..
It may not sound like much of a job — three consecutive months in bed — but NASA says the participants in its bed rest study are providing valuable information for the space program.
The test subjects are paid $10 per hour, or about $17,000 over the course of the study, which is carried out at the University of Texas, according to a report by MyFOXHouston.com. They spend three months lying down, and the preparation and rehabilitation take up another month.
MyFOXHouston.com reports that NASA's Flight Analog Research Unit is looking for ways to minimize the debilitating impact of zero gravity in space, which can cause reduction in muscle mass and bone density. One way to recreate those conditions on the ground is for test participants to lie down with head slightly tilted back for 90 days.
"It's very relaxing at times. This is probably the most I've sat still in 10 years," participant Heather Archuletta told MyFOXHouston.com.
They can shower, surf the Internet and watch DVDs, all while remaining in bed. Afterward, the rehabilitation phase is key to the study, because NASA tests ways of bringing their bodies back to normal.
"I just wanted to help out the space program keep astronauts more healthy so we can make it to Mars," said Archuletta, who updates an online blog from her test bed.
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,395181,00.html
You Like?
with the right bag and shoes you can wear a wife-beater and jeans and still
look like a million bucks! A handbag in an unusual color is always going to be a
showstopper too.
Once you have your basic black and brown down, don't be afraid
to get wild with a purple or orange bag, don't worry, you WILL
find things to go with it.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Movies with a View
For more info click here.
Get the Boot
Fall 2008 Trunk Show for Baby Phat
Isn't it a glorious day!? There is something about the combination of a beautiful summer morning in Brooklyn and garbage day that really awakens the senses!
AHHHH ....
Anyhow - loving the back and forth going on with that "booty call" post - all I can say is yay to toys ; problem solved!
;)
Now here are some items from BP 's Fall 08 trunk show :Sometimes I feel like I have outgrown BP ... but every now and then I can find some cute pieces to work with.
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Is a "Booty Call" okay when you're having a Dry Spell? (Kamilah's Take)
This is my $00.2 on the matter.
Gee... 3 years, huh? I'd consider 1 year a dry spell, 3 is like the fucking Sahara. Or should I say like Antarctica, because it's so icy and frigid. LOL! I actually read an article in a reputable magazine ( I wish I could find it, maybe New York Magazine?) that claimed that if you didn't make use of your genitals, they would in fact, begin to shrivel and dry up. Deadass!
But I digress, what one does, or preferably two do, in his/her/their bedroom as consenting adults is their business. I personally do not advocate casual sexual activity amongst those I know, the safety of your vaginal and mental health is at stake, and "the D" might make you stab somebody. But, lust is lust I suppose, and some people must act on their urges.
There are larger issues to tackle here though, your friend should do some serious self reflection to figure out what it is that she really wants. For someone who has had the discipline to undergo three years of self imposed celibacy, I can't imagine that just sex would be enough. What about intimacy and companionship? Will sex be enough when she doesn't get so much as a phone call come Valentines day? When she needs help with something and he refuses, but feels comfortable to call her late night, when he has needs? Will it be enough if she develops feelings for this man, but he's already filed her into his jumpoff category, likely eliminating herself as girlfriend material for him? Yes, he may think of her as a ho, jumpoff or some variation on the word, it goes with that territory. But does it matter? She's already passed judgement on him. She thinks HE is not good enough, right? Besides we need ho's in the world. Somebody's got to mop the floor, somebody's got to be the ho. It makes the world go 'round.
The fact of the matter is, she may not really know if these men are "up to par". You have to give yourself time to get to know an individual before you make that judgement call. You can learn someones personality traits, but until she hits the bedroom, she will not know if the "workout" will be good, and it may very well be wack. So she should take her time.
Also, what is her definition of "up to par" and is it realistic? Furthermore, is SHE up to par? What does SHE have to offer? Does it match up to the standards she is expecting of her potential suitors?
I know that finding a partner who you can connect with is difficult. But that doesn't mean you jump out the window, and settle for even less than the original offer. "Like nah, you're not good enough to date me, but I trust you enough to put a part of your body inside of my body, and for that time, hold my life and future in your hands." This doesn't add up to me.
My advice to your friend would be: Keep your knees closed, but change your game plan. Think long and hard about the things that you can and cannot put up with from a man, and whether or not the values and goals of the men you date mesh well with your values and goals, that should be what indicates if he's up to par. She may need to change her hunting ground, where do you meet these men? I hope it's not the club, or the internet or anything gross like that. Ew.
Finally, no one likes to hear this, but she may also want work on herself. By being the best woman she can be, she may find herself attracting a different sort of man. And EVERYONE can improve themselves.
But if the "D" deficit is too great, do you. Be safe, and make wise choices about who you bestow your blessings upon. It should be VIP, a very exclusive p***y, you choose what letters are hiding behind those asterisks.
"The People of Beautiful Hair"
Ojon Restorative Hair Treatment is one of my all time favorite hair treatments. It is ideal for ultra dry, color treated, damaged hair.
It can either be used before you wash or as a leave-in treatment depending on your personal hair needs. My hair is wavy/curly, frizzy, color treated not to mention the fact that I straighten it with my super hot Chi flat iron nearly every day! Yes - I know I am abusive to my poor hair - but most women are; and thats why we need intensive restorative treatment to reverse some of this damage! So what I do is saturate my hair with the Ojon oil [it is actually semi-solid but turns into oil when you rub it in your hands] and leave it in for at least an hour before washing my hair. Sometimes I will leave it in overnight if my hair really needs the help. My mom, whose hair is a lot coarser than mine, recently told me that she leaves it in her hair for a few minutes after washing her hair and then rinses it out. The result is stronger and shinier hair. Clinical studies show that using this product reduces breakage significantly as well.
Ojon has other amazing products for your hair and skin.
Click here to shop for Ojon products.
Amagansett Anyone?
So Hood
Monday, July 28, 2008
Song of the Moment
The song pulls some of it’s inspiration from Beyonce’s hit song Irreplaceable. Although we thrive on believing that we are inimitable and matchless unfortunately, as HOV said “I try to pretend that I’m different but in the end were all the same” the latter holds true for all of us. I say this to relay that if you don’t stay on your job, and keep igniting the spark that initially brought you and your partner together then the flame is going to eventually die out. AND TRUST!, there is always a wingman/woman scheming trying to play ur position. Therefore, don’t take each other for granted, because you might end up realizing the importance of that person in your life when it’s too late. So here it is for your listening pleasure:
Comfortable by Lil Wayne feat. Babyface
Do Or Don't?
Is a "Booty Call" okay when you're having a Dry Spell?
Do you think that it's morally wrong to entertain a relationship where the sole purpose is to satisfy your sexual cravings? What happens when a decent man comes around that you feel may be relationship material, but you're having difficulty cutting this sexual relationship loose because you've become addicted to the D? What do you do then? Do you juggle both until the relationship with this new person becomes sexual, or do you go to Ricky's and stock up on every Sex Toy imaginable before ending the relationship with your lover?
Here's my Advice: GO FOR IT, have a clear understanding of what your getting yourself into. Don't expect the dynamics of the relationship to change, and for your partner to change his ways. Be realistic about all expectations. Agree that anyone can end the relationship at anytime. Lastly but most importantly "DON'T GET ATTACHED", Just because it's Good D, doesn't mean that it belongs to you and only you :)
What do you guys think? Should she or shouldn't she engage in such a relationship? ... Fellas if you're reading this, what terms would you want the woman to abide by? The end of this Drought depends on you folks...
In honor of this topic, I have decided to post this song... I find it only fitting.
Feature Song
Get @ me....
50's Glam
Hollywood Purse Hook
Hollywood Purse Hook
Monday Morning Motivation
Every now an then I check out this site http://www.free-daily-motivational-self-improvement.com/index.html to self-improve ...
Lauren, Ralph's Better Half?
Well, the better half of his name anyway. Ralph isn't the sexiest moniker, is it?
Anyway, these Lauren by Ralph Lauren washed silk dresses are adorable. The vibrant colors are perfect for a warm summer evening when you have a special dinner date or cocktail party.
Find them at Nordstrom
Gal Pal
Sunday, July 27, 2008
High Voltage Makeup
I have to admit that I don't watch LA. Ink regularly, but it's so refreshing to see a fellow Latina doing her thing. Kat Von D was born in Mexico but her parents are originally from Argentina. She is a talented tatooist who has unique beauty and personal style; not to mention her makeup is always on point! Check out her new makeup line at Sephora."Makeup is only one of the many things that make me feel so privileged to be girl." - Kat Von D
Indeed!
Looks Like Liquid
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Mom Approved!
Although I do cherish this easy time of my being baby free, year by year my inner soccer mom creeps ever closer to the surface of my being. So yes, at times, toasters may excite and titillate me, these are no exception. Don't front, they're kinda cool.
And I am definitely getting one of these. Fruity Pebbles = Ambrosia
Peruse these, and other awesome appliances here
The Select Few
I concede that in a world where fashion is ever-changing, it is somewhat difficult to stay within and ahead of the fashion trends. I also happen to believe that having “Great Style” is of a greater value and of more importance than keeping up with Fashion Trends. Frankly, if you’re a person who shops within a budget it is ludicrous to constantly align yourself with the latest trend. So, this is what I propose.
If you aren’t sure what type of style you have or want to have then it would behoove you to find your niche. I know I know… sometimes it’s easier said than done. Well, I would suggest that you clear your schedule for the day. Go into one of your favorite stores and begin trying on different cuts/fits/lengths of clothing and see what looks best on you. If you are indecisive then bring a friend or ask the sales associates (they are there to assist you with more than just finding a different size) When that’s done, I would recommend that you rack up on basics. Those are the most important things to have when building your wardrobe. I’ve also read somewhere that when you find a basic that you absolutely love, you should consider buying two of the same pieces. This way you’ll have it for a long time. It’s worked for me. So now that you have your basics you gradually build your style… by either using the same technique you used for finding your basics. Or just by reading magazines, watching television, and constantly checking out our site to get information on what works for you. Whether it is finding people with the same body type as you and seeing what works for them or just picking up a great pointer and asking tons of questions. I’ve found that classic pieces always work wonders, like the traditional white colored shirt and black pencil skirt. There are several variations to this look. Take a Peak.
I hope you’ve enjoyed this Quick Tip session, leave a comment if you have any queries.
We are blessed in order to be a Blessing to others!
Get In To The Groove
No thanks neccessary. :)
LOL @ "There's a block party in East Flatbush and we need to go!" Word?
Neutrogena Pore Refining Cream
Neutrogena makes some great products, and this is one of my faves. I'm sure the Alpha Hydroxy Acids have something to do with it, products with AHA's always clear and smooth my skin beautifully. This is the only facial moisturizer I've ever been faithful to.
Check 'em out.
Wet n Wild
Try it and let me know how it works out for ya!
I would have said ladies, but I've learned that our readers are not women alone as indicated by my first comment ever - yay! :)
Anyhoo, I will keep this short b/c its really nice out and I have to fix my wig before I head out to this BBQ....
So I just got back from the nail salon and while waiting for my nails to dry I was reading one of my favorite mags InStyle. I came across a great tip for giving the illusion of thicker fuller hair. Go to your hairstylist/colorist and ask them to color the bottom half of your hair a darker shade than that of the top section of your hair. This will give your hair depth and the illusion of thicker healthier hair. As I type this I recall Alicia saying that she colors the crown of her hair a lighter color than the rest of her hair .... boy I tell you, that girl is wise beyond her years!
Happy Saturday!
So Dope
Louboutin Armadillo d'Orsay. mmmmm...
Oh no he didn't!
Star Magazine reports that Diddy has made a foolish ass mistake by asking Cassie to marry him. Exactly how much in alimony and child support would you like to pay each month, sir?
Sean "Diddy" Combs is giving marriage a chance.
"He told everyone to keep it extremely quiet because he didn't want it to get out, but you could tell he was excited," says a source. "Diddy said they hadn't set a date yet, but he wanted his family to hear the news first."
Diddy revealed his engagement to the Connecticut native at his son Justin's eighth-grade graduation ceremony in Riverdale, N.Y., on June 5. The hip-hop megastar met 17-years-younger Cassie after signing her up to his label, Bad Boy Records, in 2006.
Now, I do not believe for 1 second that this is true, but imagine if it was. Kim Porter is certainly of a different temperament than myself. She may be a better, kinder, person than myself, because homeboy would have been got his wig pushed back, knameen? Are the twins they just had even a year old yet? Oh so you were... while I was pregnant?...no, no ,no. Consequences and repercussions my brother, consequences, and repercussions.
Friday, July 25, 2008
Tryna Maintain!
Generally, when a woman is called "high maintenance", it has a negative connotation, and while the term might suggest that a woman is needy, frivolous, superficial, etc. it may also mean that she knows just how to put herself together. Now I understand that this may not be important to some, but as a woman who always tries to be presentable, I am not sure this is so bad. There is a definite correlation between looking good and feeling good. While reading Memoirs of Bernardo Vega for homework I came across a passage that I found particularly relevant; and being the makeup obbssessed woman that I am; I of course I had to apply it to my thoughts on not only beauty and makeup, but on feeling ones best.
:)
MCC's new LP ...
Eye Majic? Oh Snap!
OK, so these things are FLYING off of HSN. I didn't know anything about HSN until recently, when my mother-in-law put me on. Apparently they have quality control standards that meet, if not exceed, those of most department stores. So their products are no bull, and if you don't like 'em, neither are their return policies.
Anyway, I haven't tried them, yet, :) but these little strips will allegedly give you a perfect shadow application in less than 1 minute. So no excuses for looking shabby lady!
Here's a demonstration video of the product. Yeah, it's long, but skip through it, there are some impressive looks in there. Plus, those girls got they nails DID! LOL!
and here's the link to buy:
Eye Majic
It's Always Shop ' 0 Clock!
CUTE! Buy Me. You know you want to.
It's simple enough to wear during the day, sexy enough for night. Dress it up or down, who doesn't love versatility? Plus, its BCBG, and that is a label that you can count on to flatter your figure.Me likey.
This one is also at L&T. It's made by Xscape. Hmmm...Never heard of it, but that's a pretty turquoise.
You've already overspent, might as well buy me too.
Mineral Miracle
Good morning ladies!
Friday August 1st is National Girlfriends Day and Bare Escentuals wants you to celebrate at one of their stores! So round up your BFF's and head on over to one of their boutiques to play with makeup... they will be hosting girlfriend parties from Aug. 1st through Aug. 3rd but you have to call and schedule an appointment.
The brand whose slogan boasts "Makeup so pure you can sleep in it" was just the miracle I was waiting for 3 years ago and if you struggle with acne this could be the makeup for you too.
I have struggled with breakouts since I can remember and always relied on heavy liquid foundation to even out my skin tone and hide blemishes. My first experience with B.E. was awkward; I buffed and buffed and still felt naked. No matter how much I put on, it still felt ....well - BARE!
Find a store near you: http://www.bareescentuals.com/stores/
Giuseppe Zanotti Jeweled Fish Sandal
I'm throwing these up to follow Avyanka's earlier SATC post.
If you purchase these please make sure your man doesn't keep you waiting all night. Especially if you're covered in assorted homemade sushi. :)
Link to buy
Shoe Me Baby
Legs of a Goddess
As summer gets into full swing, we ladies need to make sure that our leg game is on point. The following item is a great product that helps to accentuate the gifts that you have already been given.
It is the Super Stars - Super Sheen Bronzing Mist by Sephora.
This mist gives you a glow like you won’t believe, and for those of us that enjoy looking as if we’ve just stepped off the beach it’s just the thing for you. Its original price was $18 dollars but it is currently going for $12. So if you have nothing against, Vitamin E, Nut-Oils, Aloe Vera Gel, and the scent of coconut I’d suggest you check this out.
In respect to all the other factors, I’m not a miracle worker but I can recommend a great place to get a Tennis Racket or a great park to jog if you’re also looking to tone your legs. In terms of products this is one of the best I can recommend.
You better work it girls.
Custom Candy Paint
Have you ever had an idea for the perfect shade of lip gloss, but you just can't seem to find your fantasy color in reality? Either the color is off, or they have big stripper- glitter flakes, and they can never be shiny enough, can they?
Well Prescriptives can make your gloss dreams come true! At the Prescriptives counter in Bergdorf Goodman, a salesperson will squeeze various tubes into a vat and churn that lipgloss up like butter while you wait. You may test as you go, and ask them to fine tune your gloss until you find what you're looking for, right down to the flavor. At $26.00, they're pricier than your average gloss, but worth it to get your mitts on that elusive shade. And when someone asks you where they can buy that fantastic gloss you're wearing, toss that hair, flash that smile, and say "sorry, you can't, its custom."
Ugh... You're such a snob. And I love it!
Note: This Service not available at all prescriptives counters.
Well, research that ish.