Is a "Booty Call" okay when you're having a Dry Spell?

So, I have a friend that hasn't gotten "any" in about 3 years... No, I'm not kidding! Practically a born again virgin, right? :) It's not as if she doesn't want to... (Trust me she does in the worst possible way). It's just that the men that she becomes acquainted with aren't up to par. She's run into a few of them that although they aren't looking to settle down, they do have the potential to be of another use to her (like giving her a good Work Out. :) Although this idea is particularly appealing to her, she has trepidations about it because Casual Sex isn't something that she's ever tried out before or even considered for that matter. In hard times, things that you've never pondered start to become more enticing. One of her biggest obstacles is getting over the fact that people may view her as a Hoe (No, not the gardening tool).

Do you think that it's morally wrong to entertain a relationship where the sole purpose is to satisfy your sexual cravings? What happens when a decent man comes around that you feel may be relationship material, but you're having difficulty cutting this sexual relationship loose because you've become addicted to the D? What do you do then? Do you juggle both until the relationship with this new person becomes sexual, or do you go to Ricky's and stock up on every Sex Toy imaginable before ending the relationship with your lover?

Here's my Advice: GO FOR IT, have a clear understanding of what your getting yourself into. Don't expect the dynamics of the relationship to change, and for your partner to change his ways. Be realistic about all expectations. Agree that anyone can end the relationship at anytime. Lastly but most importantly "DON'T GET ATTACHED", Just because it's Good D, doesn't mean that it belongs to you and only you :)

What do you guys think? Should she or shouldn't she engage in such a relationship? ... Fellas if you're reading this, what terms would you want the woman to abide by? The end of this Drought depends on you folks...

In honor of this topic, I have decided to post this song... I find it only fitting.

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